Unlikely Housewives: Real Talk For Worn Out Christian Women

It’s not the laundry. It’s feeling like you have to notice it, remember it, and ask—then wondering why the person you love most doesn’t seem to see what you’re carrying. You love your husband. But you can love him and still feel lonely, frustrated, or tired of having the same conversation. Those feelings can be hard to admit, especially when you feel pressure to be a patient, gracious Christian wife who shouldn’t need to ask for more. This week we welcome Dr. Ricky Arenson for an honest, humor-filled conversation about the misunderstandings underneath recurring marriage conflicts. Together, we explore what happens when one spouse wants to talk and the other withdraws, when support turns into unwanted solutions, and when family life leaves little room to connect. The question underneath: Is this really about the unfinished task—or about wanting to feel seen, understood, and on the same team? “The same old fight may be pointing to something you haven’t been able to say or hear yet.” You don’t have to solve…

What if your self-care routine is not actually caring for you? What if it is quietly becoming another job—another list to manage, another set of rules to follow, another place to spend money, and another way to feel like you are falling behind? Christian women often feel pressure to hide how exhausted they really are. We can say “I’m fine,” keep showing up, take care of everyone else, and still privately wonder why we are so tired—even while trying to do all the “right” things. Drink more water. Eat more protein. Take the supplements. Move your body. Get sunlight. Journal. Pray. Go to therapy. Sleep eight hours. Keep the house clean. Be present for your family. Stay grateful. And somehow do it all peacefully. No wonder we feel overwhelmed. In this episode, we are talking about the quiet pressure so many women carry: the belief that taking care of ourselves has to look productive, perfectly consistent, and Instagram-worthy. From supplement drawers and complicated routines to decision fatigue, guilt, and the…

How to Stop Rescuing Your Kids Without Feeling Like a Bad Mom An Unspoken conversation with parenting educator Jody Hill What if the hardest part of letting your child struggle is not their discomfort—but what it makes you believe about yourself as a mom? When your child gets a bad grade, misses a deadline, loses playing time, has friendship drama, or simply has to face a consequence, it can activate the thought Christian women often feel pressure to hide: “If I were a better mom, I would have prevented this.” In this week’s Unspoken conversation, parenting educator, bestselling author, and self-described “parent sidekick” Jody Hill helps us unpack the rescue reflex—the urge to jump in, fix it, email the teacher, smooth over the problem, or carry the consequence for our kids. Not because we do not love them, but often because their struggle feels personal to us. Jody offers a more hopeful path: be your child’s champion, not their savior. You can stay close, validate that something is hard, coach them through…

You say "I'm fine" so often you almost believe it. But behind those two words is a woman carrying anger she renamed "being direct," sadness she buried under a packed calendar, and fear she disguised as "just being prepared." And if you're a Christian woman, the pressure to keep it together is even heavier — because nice Christian women aren't supposed to be angry, jealous, or overwhelmed. We're supposed to trust the Lord and be grateful. So we pray the polished prayer. "Thank you, Lord, I'm so grateful." While inside we're thinking: Why did that fall through? I'm scared. I'm disappointed. I'm exhausted. Here's the surprise: Jesus felt every one of those emotions. He wept knowing He was about to raise Lazarus. He felt righteous anger, deep sorrow, anguish, and compassion — all without sin. So why do we keep bringing God the edited version of ourselves? In this episode, we're naming the three emotions Christian women feel the most pressure to hide — anger, sadness, and fear — and the masks we give them so we…

What if the fear you keep trying to hide is not proof that your faith is failing? In this week’s Unspoken conversation, we sit down with author, former cardiac nurse, and cancer survivor Jenna Schutt to talk about the things many Christian women feel pressure to keep quiet: anxiety, fear, mom guilt, exhaustion, disappointment, and the ache of trying to look “fine” when life feels anything but. After being diagnosed at 30 with a rare, incurable bone-marrow disease—while raising two boys in diapers—Jenna learned that knowing the right Bible verses is not always the same as knowing how to access faith when fear hits. Through chemotherapy, a stem-cell transplant, and long hospital stays, she discovered what she calls the Joy Reflex: training faith, peace, and joy to become a first response rather than a last resort. This is not a conversation about toxic positivity, ignoring painful circumstances, or pretending every hard moment is okay. It is an invitation to name what is really happening beneath the…

“I’m fine” is often the quickest answer—and sometimes the heaviest one. Because behind “fine” can be the grief you cannot explain, the resentment you feel guilty admitting, the endless mental list you cannot turn off, the fear you are holding for your children, or the pressure to keep everyone else okay. In our first episode of our Unspoken season, we are talking about the things Christian women often feel pressure to hide: the overwhelm, the sadness, the anxiety, the loneliness, the questions, and the emotions that do not seem “faithful enough” to say out loud. But here is the truth: God already knows what you are carrying. You do not have to have the perfect words. You do not have to tell everyone everything. And you do not have to keep holding it all by yourself. This conversation is an invitation to pause, look inward, and ask: What am I carrying that no one knows about? From there, we can begin to name what is heavy, bring it honestly to Jesus, and take one small step from hiding to healing. In This…

What if “I’m fine” is not the truth? Maybe you are not lazy. Maybe you are not failing. Maybe you are not ungrateful for the life God has given you. Maybe you are simply carrying more than you were meant to carry alone. Here’s a snapshot of our new Unspoken season, where we are naming the things Christian women often feel pressure to hide: the emotional exhaustion beneath the full calendar, the quiet doubt behind the faithful smile, the fear of rejection, and the relentless pressure to be enough as a mom, wife, friend, and woman of faith. You can still show up for everyone, get the kids where they need to go, keep the house moving, serve at church, answer the texts, and look “fine” from the outside—while feeling emotionally and mentally depleted inside. And sometimes, instead of acknowledging what hurts, we get busier. We take on more. We keep moving because slowing down might mean admitting that something feels too heavy. This conversation is not about shame, fixing yourself, or telling the whole world your…

You can look like you’re holding it all together and still be running on empty. For so many Christian women, the pressure to be grateful, capable, selfless, and strong can make it hard to admit what’s really happening beneath the surface: the exhaustion, hormone chaos, stress, extra weight, painful symptoms, coping habits, and the quiet fear that your body is failing you. In this honest conversation, Dr. Tabatha—a triple board-certified physician, faith-based women’s health expert, speaker, and bestselling author—invites us to stop faking fine and start bringing our whole selves to God. She shares her own story of burnout, chronic pain, and surrender, along with a faith-centered perspective on caring for our bodies as the vessels God created them to be. Your body is not broken—and you do not have to keep carrying the burden alone. Connect with Dr. Tabatha: Dr. Tabatha Barber Website Gutsydrtabatha Instagram ********************* 🎙️Are you wanting to share your message with thousands through podcasts?…

Stay in Touch In this year-end episode, we look back on a full season of podcasting, real life, and all the chaos that comes with Maycember. We talk honestly about motherhood, faith, friendship, serving others, and what it looks like to keep showing up when life feels full. From housework and prayer to joy, relationships, and the unexpected ways God uses hard seasons, this conversation is equal parts funny, honest, and encouraging. It’s a reminder that even in the busiest months, God is still working and still faithful. What We Talk About Why Maycember feels busier than the holidays. Reflecting on a year of consistent podcasting. The most listened-to episodes from the “For the One” series. Why the Unlikely Husbands episode resonated with listeners. A real-life “report card” on housework, faith, friendships, and handling life. How serving others can become an act of worship. Finding joy in busy, emotional, and imperfect seasons. The importance of showing up for your people. What’s next for the podcast after…

This episode is a meaningful reminder that wellness is not just physical — it is spiritual, emotional, and deeply personal. If you’ve ever struggled with emotional eating, burnout, or feeling spiritually empty, this conversation will encourage you to look beneath the surface and pursue lasting healing. In this episode, we talk about: JT Tapias’ powerful journey from Colombia to the United States. How trauma, survival, and identity shaped his early life. The connection between emotional pain and unhealthy eating patterns. Why diets often fail when the heart is still hurting. The story behind the Empty Your Bucket nutrition plan. How faith in Jesus brought true healing and transformation. What it means to find freedom from food, idols, and inner emptiness. About our guest JT Tapias is a nationally recognized speaker, nutrition sociologist, and Christian counselor. His faith-based approach to wellness has been featured on CBS, Men’s Health, and Muscle & Fitness. Through his work, JT helps people understand the…

AI is everywhere now, and for many Christian parents, that reality comes with both opportunities and concerns. In this episode, we talk honestly about how kids are interacting with AI, why it matters for their faith and critical thinking, and how parents can help guide them with wisdom, curiosity, and biblical truth. We also discuss the growing challenge of AI in everyday life, from voice assistants and homework help to social media algorithms and AI-generated “friends.” While AI can be a helpful tool, it should never replace real relationship, real research, or discernment rooted in Scripture. If you’re trying to raise grounded, thoughtful, faith-filled kids in a world that’s changing fast, this conversation will encourage you to stay engaged, ask questions, and lead your children well. In This Episode, We Cover: How kids are already using AI in everyday life. Why critical thinking matters more than ever. The difference between using AI as a tool and relying on it as truth. How to help your kids test…

What if the key to raising confident girls starts before puberty does? In this episode, Annie Wolf, creator of Girls Club, shares why early conversations about body changes, anatomy, and puberty can help girls feel prepared, supported, and proud of their growing bodies. Tracy and Tori talk honestly about the awkwardness many parents feel, why silence can create more confusion, and how families can begin these conversations in a natural, healthy way. Annie shares how her background as an elementary school teacher led her to create a safe, encouraging space where girls can learn about their bodies, ask questions, and feel empowered instead of ashamed. The conversation explores why waiting until fifth or sixth grade often means kids are already behind on the conversation, especially when girls may begin noticing body changes as early as third grade or even earlier. Annie explains how starting with simple, age-appropriate language, body part names, and positive affirmations can help girls develop a healthy…

In this episode, we sit down with Pat Domangue to talk about what it really looks like to grow closer to Jesus when life feels full, busy, and overwhelming. Pat shares her powerful testimony of coming to know the Lord at age 30 after walking through deep brokenness, and how God has used His Word to transform her identity, her healing, and her calling. We talk about what it means to move from simply consuming Bible teaching to truly applying God’s Word in everyday life, especially in the middle of motherhood, ministry, and ordinary responsibilities. Pat also shares practical ways she has made time for Jesus in different seasons of life, from early mornings to car lines to quiet moments at home, and reminds listeners that faithfulness does not have to look the same for everyone. The conversation also explores grace, shame, identity in Christ, and how easy it is for even good things to crowd out our time with God. Pat encourages women to stay in process, give themselves grace, and keep returning to the Word as…

Terri Hitt is an experienced mom of four, a longtime mentor to women, and the author of The Good Mom Trap. After raising children in two different generations and walking through adoption, grief, and God’s refining process, Terry now helps moms break free from the pressure of “good” parenting and focus on raising children with eternal purpose. In this conversation, Terri opens up about: Why the desire to be a “good mom” can become a trap. The difference between parenting behavior and parenting the heart. How faith changes the way we approach motherhood. Why Christ-centered parenting matters more than perfection. Practical ways to build a home that points children to Jesus. The power of relationship, consistency, and spiritual surrender in motherhood. If you have ever felt like you are falling short as a mom, this episode will remind you that your job is not to be perfect — your job is to lead your children toward Christ. Grab The Good Mom Trap https://a.co/d/0gRyXMGP The easiest first step to connect with…

Ever notice you can binge Christian reels, podcasts, and sermons for hours… and still feel spiritually empty when you finally put your phone down? This episode is a real-talk conversation about Christian content overload, how even “good” content can become your new noise, and what it looks like to return to time with the Creator instead of living on a steady diet of content creators. We share our own stories of: Following countless Christian influencers, pastors, and worship accounts Binging sermons and Christian podcasts while calling it “time with God” Letting quiet time become an aesthetic or performance instead of a genuine meeting with Jesus Using planners, Bible highlighters, apps, and “spiritual” shopping as a substitute for actually opening the Bible You’ll hear us unpack: How to recognize when Christian content has become an idol or a distraction The difference between being with Jesus and just consuming information about Him Why Mary vs. Martha still matters in a digital, always-on world Signs…

How do we help our kids stay rooted in their faith when their textbooks, teachers, and TikTok feeds all seem to say, “Science has replaced God”? In this conversation, we sit down with Doug Ell—MIT grad, former atheist, lawyer, and self-proclaimed ultra-nerd—who spent decades studying molecular biology, physics, and the human genome, only to discover that the evidence points powerfully toward a Creator, not away from Him. He shares how reading dense grad-level science texts on airplanes slowly dismantled his atheism and led him to Jesus through logic, data, and wonder at the “code of life” written into our DNA. We talk about how public schools often present only one narrative (Big Bang, Darwinism, no design allowed) and why that can quietly bully kids into believing faith is anti-science. Doug walks us through simple, accessible ways moms can talk about DNA, fine-tuned physics, and creation with their kids—even if you don’t consider yourself a science person. If you’ve ever worried that you’re sending your…

Hey housewives! We are getting real (and ridiculous) in this laugh-out-loud episode of The Unlikely Housewives, confessing the petty things that drive Christian moms batty—from dishwasher disasters to toilet paper tragedies. It's unfiltered therapy, reminding us God loves (and laughs at) our flaws while we sanctify slowly. Episode Highlights Pull up a chair amid the shoe piles and dive into these relatable rants: Dishwasher loading drama: Tetris pros vs. straw-in-lid purists, plus basement dishwashers that hide Tupperware forever. Toilet paper wars: Over vs. under, and the horror of rolls just set on top (or worse, under in guest baths—we fix it!). Shoe explosions & "rapture" moments: Six pairs by day's end, lining stairs, and magic coffee tables that "disappear" messes. Wet towels on floors (then screams in the shower), overflowing trash with face-up paper plates, and couch pillows/blankets everywhere. Listener Favorites Our audience chimed in with duplicates galore—proving pettiness unites us:…

In this episode, we sit down with decluttering pioneer Barbara Hemphill to unpack the real reason your home keeps getting & staying messy—clutter is delayed decisions, not a mom-fail. You’ll learn how emotional and spiritual clutter show up as piles on your counters, why organizing containers aren’t the solution, and how to make small, grace-filled choices that actually stick. If you feel like you’re constantly cleaning and never caught up, this conversation will give you permission, perspective, and a practical starting point. What You’ll Hear in This Episode How Barbara’s simple idea that “clutter is postponed decisions” instantly reframes the shame you feel about your home. Why your physical clutter is often a reflection of emotional and even spiritual clutter—unprocessed grief, fear, guilt, or perfectionism. Real‑life mom examples: the mail pile you keep “just in case,” the kids’ art you don’t know how to handle, the closets you avoid opening. The difference between organizing and deciding—and why pretty…

We are so excited to welcome our guest, Michelle Spottifora, founder of Faithful Workouts. She blends faith, fitness, and food to empower women in strengthening bodies and faith. Topics include biblical wellness, body image victories, and habits for energy. Michelle Spottifora inspires many women via Christian workouts, retreats, and programs transforming lives through scripture and community. Her path: 1980s fitness without faith, then motherhood/church sparked conviction to infuse Jesus into her classes. Key Topics Faith-fitness fusion: ABCs—Ask God (James 4:2), Believe (Mark 9:23), Check motives (1 Peter 5:7). Momentum starters: 5-min songs, routines, alarms, cues like shoes by your Bible. Ideal workouts: Cardio, strength (fights 40+ muscle loss), core (back pain prevention), balance, stretch—target 150 min/week. 4 Health Tips for Women Over 40 Evidence-based from diverse studies, tailored for women: 1. Movement 150 min/week across cardio, strength, core, balance, flexibility; efficient multi-muscle…

In this episode, we sit down with licensed professional counselor and perinatal mental health specialist Emma Donaldson, who walks alongside Christian moms in the postpartum season. She shares how becoming a mom herself shifted her from trauma work into perinatal mental health, and why so many women quietly spiral with anxiety while still loving Jesus and their babies deeply. Emma helps us name the postpartum anxiety mistakes Christian moms don’t see coming: spiritualizing symptoms and assuming it’s “just a faith issue,” hiding intrusive thoughts out of fear of being judged or seen as unsafe, and buying into the “super-mom” myth that a good mom does it all alone with a smile. She also unpacks the massive hormonal crash after birth, the reality of baby blues versus postpartum depression, and how long hormones, breastfeeding, and sleep deprivation can keep your nervous system on high alert. We get honest about Christian clichés like “just be grateful” or “just pray more,” how they unintentionally deepen shame,…

What if God is not asking you to move into the “next big thing” but to be grounded right where you are? In this conversation, Tori and Tracy get real about identity, calling, stay-at-home motherhood, and the exhausting chase for affirmation outside the home. For the woman who keeps asking, “Am I falling behind?” or “Shouldn’t I be doing more?”—this episode is your permission slip to breathe, be where your feet are, and trust that God has you exactly where He wants you. In This Episode We Talk About: Tori’s 10-year wrestle with being a stay-at-home mom and constantly chasing “God’s will” in the next opportunity, title, or achievement.​ Tracy’s journey of stepping away from a good, successful thing to lock in at home during a hard season and what it looked like to quiet the noise and get off social media. How the word “just” (as in “just a wife and mom”) sneaks into our language and steals the value of the most important roles God has given us. The craving for affirmation and recognition—why words of…

‘Experiences over things’ isn’t just a cute saying—it’s a radical shift in how we see our time, our money, and our calling as Christian women, wives, and moms. In this episode of The Unlikely Housewives, we unpack what it really looks like to choose memories, connection, and Kingdom impact over clutter, comparison, and consumerism. Through honest conversation, laughter, and real-life stories, we explore how prioritizing experiences can transform the atmosphere of your home, your marriage, and your motherhood. We talk about the subtle ways our culture tells us to buy more to feel like “enough,” and how that pressure shows up in our homes, holidays, and even our parenting. Then we contrast that with God’s heart for simplicity, presence, and intentional living—choosing game nights over gadgets, road trips over random purchases, and time with Jesus over the constant chase for the next “new” thing. You’ll hear how we’re personally wrestling with these decisions in our own families, what we’ve learned the hard…

This episode features hosts Tracy and Tori welcoming their husbands, Chris and Andrew, for a lively in-studio discussion on marriage communication challenges. Recorded as part of their four-year podcast journey, it offers faith-infused insights for busy housewives navigating real-life relationships. Timestamps 2:00 - Marriage mind-reading fails​ 10:00 - Communication evolutions 20:00 - Silent treatments and fixes 30:00 - Parenting shifts and future focus​ Episode Highlights Chris (married 20 years to Tracy) and Andrew (nearly 18 years to Tori) share proof-of-life stories, poking fun at annual appearances and avoiding deep "skeletons in the closet." Couples explore failed expectations of spouses intuitively knowing needs, like car ride silences vs. podcasts, clothing choices, and casual suggestions turning into silent treatments. Key Discussions Communication emerges as a top marriage hurdle alongside finances and parenting. Husbands admit poor mind-reading; wives project their preferences but learn opposites…

Ever feel disconnected, lonely, or like everyone else got the handbook for Christian motherhood and marriage except you? This trailer is your official permission slip to drop the act, laugh at the crazy, and admit that sometimes “quiet time” is hiding in the pantry with a snack. We’re Tori and Tracy, two “unlikely” housewives who met after moving our families across the country, bonded over being lonely and over it, and decided to create the community we were desperate to find. Here, you’ll find humor, honesty, and hope as we talk about Christian parenting, marriage, shame, emotional health, and walking with Jesus in the middle of the mess—not after you’ve folded the last load of laundry. If you’re ready to swap self-care for soul-care, drop the people-pleasing, and join a tribe that loves Jesus and also laughs at memes about reheating the same coffee three times, hit play and come join the club.

If you’ve ever stared at the ceiling at 2 a.m. begging God for just a few hours of sleep, this conversation is for you. We’re joined by Dr. Benjamin Long, a pediatric sleep doctor by day and seminary student by night, who specializes in the integration of theology and sleep. He shares practical, science‑backed strategies plus a biblical perspective that helps you feel seen in the dark and supported in your sleepless nights. Dr. Long walks us through what “normal” sleep looks like from newborns to teenagers, why some people fall asleep in seconds while their spouse hears every tiny noise, and how insomnia develops over time. He also breaks down his “sleepless night rules” from his new devotional‑style Sleep Habits Journal and shows how meeting God in the middle of the night can slowly transform both your habits and your heart. Whether you’re a mama with a newborn, a parent of a night‑owl teen, or a woman walking through hormonal insomnia, you’ll walk away with validation, language for what you’re…

Overwhelmed by the after-school chaos and the 5–9 p.m. “witching hours”? This episode is a real, funny, faith-filled chat about snacks, homework, dinner, and bedtime routines that actually help you breathe a little easier as a tired Christian mama. Episode Summary In this episode, Tori and Tracy get real about the after-school unraveling that happens the moment kids get in the car and how “How was your day?” always seems to get the one-word answer: “Good.” They talk through the emotional crash kids experience after a long school day, why open-ended questions help, and how something as simple as a snack and a bathroom break can completely shift the atmosphere. They also dig into the realities of homework in the digital age, missing assignments, and the tension between giving kids downtime and still getting things done before practice and bedtime. From decision fatigue around “What’s for dinner?” to wasting leftovers and managing everyone’s preferences, they share practical tips like deciding dinner before 2…

What if your biggest struggle isn’t your theology, but your emotional maturity? In this raw conversation, Tracy and Tori sit down with Chaz, cofounder of Storyed, to talk about mental health, emotional discipleship, and how a secure attachment to Jesus can change the way you handle conflict, parenting, friendships, and your own thought life. What you’ll hear in this episode How Chaz went from campus missionary to cofounding Storied with his wife Madison to help believers grow in mental health and emotional maturity through spiritual practices and coping skills. Why so many Christians are “bible nerds” with good theology but still emotionally reactive, easily offended, and struggling to stay on mission with Jesus and people. The difference between emotional awareness and emotional maturity—and why both matter for how you parent, love your spouse, and do life in community. A real talk on “helicopter parenting,” college kids still calling mom for permission, and what it actually looks like to launch kids into…

Feeling exhausted, overwhelmed by “New Year, New You” pressure, and not sure where to start with your health? In this episode, Tracy and Tori sit down with Esther Yunkin, a registered nurse with over 25 years of experience in emergency and holistic health, and host of the Health with Hashimoto’s podcast. Esther helps exhausted women with Hashimoto’s regain energy with simple, sustainable strategies that actually fit real mom-life. Esther shares why you don’t need a massive overhaul or a 75-hard style challenge to feel better and why healing often starts with the most basic, ordinary habits that connect you to your body, to the earth, and to God. She also explains how stress, your nervous system, and even your breathing patterns are impacting your energy more than you realize—and gives you practical, doable steps you can start today, even if you’re listening months after January.​ In This Episode, We Talk About The pressure of New Year health goals, social media “fixes,” and why most big resolutions aren’t…

In this New Year kickoff episode, Tracy and Tori invite you into a real conversation about change, brain fog, motherhood milestones, and what it looks like to walk into 2026 with open hands and realistic expectations. From middle school transitions and impending changes to fractions homework, menopause, and church shopping, they share candid stories and a lot of laughter to remind you that you are not walking this season alone. Instead of asking, “What can I add to my life this year?” The Unlikely Housewives flip the script and challenge you to prayerfully consider what you might need to take away—noise, distraction, or even social media—to make room for the good things God wants to do. They also share their heart for this podcast in 2026, including a peek at their content plans, a new mother–daughter Bible study with close friends, and how community has carried them through a whirlwind of change. In This Episode, You’ll Hear About The “New Year hangover” and why brain fog and last year’s hard things don’t…

In this cozy season finale, Tracy and Tori take listeners back to where it all began—recording from the sauna that sparked the Unlikely Housewives podcast four years ago. Between the sweat, the laughter, and some real talk, they look back on a year marked by big transitions, parenting milestones, travel, and learning to stay obedient when life feels completely unsettled. Tracy shares the story of her family’s unexpected move: downsizing, letting go of the pool and the “dream house,” and discovering that less house and more time can actually be the greatest gift. Tori opens up about how walking through Tracy’s moving season has impacted her own heart and conversations at home, especially with a husband who feels restless and kids who are racing toward new stages. They also reflect on: What it’s like raising teens and near-adults in a post-Covid world. The tension between wanting to plan everything and realizing that God doesn’t do “conference calls.” How motherhood and marriage look from the eyes of their…

What happens when your world is literally turned upside down? In this deeply moving episode, the Unlikely Housewives sit down with Lara to hear her incredible story of navigating chronic vertigo. For three years, Lara was mostly bedridden, her life derailed by a condition that resisted over 150 different therapies. Join us for a raw and honest conversation about wrestling with faith when healing doesn't come, questioning the promises of God, and ultimately finding a profound peace that transcends physical circumstances. Lara shares how she moved from desperation to acceptance, offering a powerful perspective on what it means to find purpose and hope in the midst of suffering. This isn't just a story about illness; it's a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the surprising ways God meets us in our darkest moments. Key Takeaways from This Episode: The Reality of Chronic Illness: Lara details the isolating and debilitating experience of being bedridden with vertigo for three years, a period that…

In this episode of the Unlikely Housewives, Tracy and Tori sit down with award‑winning author and Exodus Women’s Retreats founder, Robin Gerblick, to talk about her journey from multiple abortions, broken relationships, and deep spiritual lostness to encountering Jesus in a supernatural “five senses” moment by a river. Robin shares how God met her in her most desperate plea for help, rewrote the trajectory of her life, and led her into a 32‑year Christ‑centered marriage, late‑in‑life motherhood through adoption at 48, and a calling to minister to other women through her book, Giving Up Grace: A Spiritual Rebranding of the Soul.​​ You’ll hear Robin unpack what it really means to “give up grace” you never knew—laying down the counterfeit stories, self‑protection, and secret shame—in order to receive the true Grace your soul has been starving for. Tracy and Tori lean all the way into the hard topics: abortion’s lifelong impact, spiritual warfare around telling your story, bringing baggage into marriage, and how…

In this heartfelt and transformative episode, Tracy and Tori, your favorite Unlikely Housewives, sit down with Heather Day—author, ministry leader, and marketing expert—to discuss her book Money and Spirit: Surrendering Our Finances to the Work of the Holy Spirit. Heather shares her personal journey of financial struggles, the weight of debt, and how a prayer in an Applebee's parking lot led to a life-changing shift in her family's approach to money. This isn’t your typical financial advice episode. Heather dives deep into the spiritual roots of financial decisions, exploring how the fruits of the Spirit—love, peace, self-control, and joy—can transform not just your bank account but your heart. Whether you're navigating debt, learning to trust God with your finances, or simply seeking a fresh perspective, this episode is packed with wisdom, humor, and practical takeaways. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How to invite God into your financial decisions. The importance of heart posture over budgeting…

Chapters (00:00) - Understanding Shame and Overcoming It (10:33) - Breaking Free From Overwhelming Shame (16:09) - The Destructive Power of Shame (29:52) - Navigating the Layers of Shame (37:10) - Navigating Parenting Through Shame (44:03) - Empowering All Housewives With Confidence Podcast Summary Imagine a world where shame no longer dictates your life. Join us as we peel back the the intricate layers of shame and its impact on identity, alongside the brilliant Dr. Zoe Shaw, licensed psychotherapist and author of "Stronger in the Difficult Places." With her unique blend of insights rooted in psychology and faith, Dr. Shaw guides us through understanding how shame can lead to isolation and affect our relationships. Her story, which has also been highlighted in a docuseries on the OWN Network, offers a fresh and hopeful perspective on building authentic connections. In a deeply personal narrative, we confront the shadows of past experiences and the isolation they breed. From the struggles of being a pregnant…

Chapters (06:18) - Bringing Hope and Humor to Motherhood (19:59) - Unwavering Faith in God's Timing (20:24) - 26-Year Journey to Publishing Dream (25:13) - Empowering Women in Pregnancy Centers (28:45) - The Power of Books and Podcasting (36:11) - Pursuing Dreams Podcast Summary Ever find yourself laughing at life's little mishaps, like realizing your shoes don't match just as you're about to step out the door? Our guest, Jennifer Bosma, sure has, and she's here to remind us how laughter can be a powerful ally in navigating the unpredictable landscape of motherhood and marriage. Jennifer, a former teacher turned podcaster and children’s author, brings her unique perspective on embracing imperfections and celebrating the joyful chaos that defines family life. Through her witty stories and hard-earned wisdom, you will find encouragement to let go of perfection and revel in the delightful unpredictability of daily life. Jennifer's journey is a testament to the power of perseverance and the unexpected paths our…

Chapters (00:41) - Standing by Her Man (05:28) - From Incarceration to Marriage (14:41) - Prison, Redemption, and Relapse (28:55) - Facing Addiction and Surrendering Control (36:37) - Empowering Women Through Coaching and Faith (47:01) - Navigating Addiction and Finding Healing Podcast Summary How can vulnerability and grace transform our most challenging relationships? Join us as we explore this question through the incredible journey of Jennifer Shook, an inner healing mentor and Christian life coach. Jennifer's story is a testament to finding hope and healing amidst the trials of addiction, betrayal, and family crises. She shares her experiences of standing by her husband, Scotty, during his battle with addiction and incarceration, and how this journey led to unexpected growth and redemption. Her candid insights reveal the power of breaking the silence on these often-avoided topics in church communities, offering a safe haven for those in need of encouragement and understanding. Jennifer takes us through…

Chapters (04:25) - Parenting With Purpose and Faith (10:28) - Navigating Spiritual Attacks and Divine Guidance (19:09) - Parenting With Humility and Grace (22:46) - Equipping Parents for Discipleship (27:56) - Prioritizing Intentionality and Family Time (36:47) - Setting Boundaries for Technology and Discipleship (45:22) - Embracing Imperfection in Parenting Podcast Summary Ever find yourself riding the waves of parenting, wondering how to swim against the cultural currents? Join us and our special guest, Josh Poteet, lead pastor of 180 Life Church and author of "Parenting Against the Current," as we explore the beautiful chaos of parenting with purpose and faith. Through Josh's journey from EMS to ministry, discover how God’s guidance can illuminate your true calling. We break down all the complexities of raising children who love Jesus amidst a sea of cultural challenges, offering listeners practical wisdom and heartwarming stories to inspire intentional parenting. Josh shares the power of testimony in our…

Chapters (04:38) - God's Call to Run for Governor (15:59) - Challenges Facing Kansas Growth and Business (30:00) - Stepping Out in Faith and Trust (34:42) - Preparing for Spiritual Battles in Public (44:16) - Courage, Sacrifice, and American History Podcast Summary What if stepping out of your comfort zone could lead to a life driven by faith and purpose? Join us as we uncover the remarkable story of Philip Sarnecki, a Kansas businessman who left behind a thriving career to answer a higher calling—running for governor. With ventures spanning industries from entrepreneurship to movie production, Philip's journey into politics is a testament to courage, faith, and a business-minded approach to governance. His inspiring leap from humble beginnings to the political stage serves as a reminder of the powerful transformation that can occur when you trust in a greater plan. Guided by God, Phillip and his wife, Heidi, have embarked on this new path as a family. We dive into Philip's admiration for leaders like Ronald…

Chapters (03:27) - Navigating Anxiety With Amber Lia (08:57) - Parental Support for Social Media Transparency (13:55) - Navigating Social Media Boundaries for Kids (22:53) - Building Confidence in Teenagers Through Scripture (30:52) You Are Seen Book Overview (33:08) - Overcoming Triggers and Parenting Challenges Podcast Summary Join us in this enriching conversation as we welcome author Amber Lia, who, alongside her son Ollie, has penned a powerful new book aimed at addressing the challenges teenagers face today. Amber shares how their collaborative effort serves as a vital resource for parents to better understand their teens' needs to be seen, heard, known, and loved, all through a relationship with God. We share practical ways to incorporate this devotional into daily life, such as reading it during breakfast, and emphasize the importance of fostering authentic relationships with your teens. Listen in as Amber opens up about her journey from being a high school literature teacher with dreams of writing…

Chapters (01:33) - Inspirational Perspective on Marriage (04:10) - The Resilient Journey of Stephanie Jordan (09:18) - The Power of Marriage Restoration (26:16) - Protecting Your Marriage Through Challenges (42:16) Defining Domestic Abuse and Marriage (55:01) - Heeding God's Voice in Marriage (56:47) Divine Guidance in Relationship Choices Podcast Summary Resilient women are inspiring; that includes Stephanie Jordan who shares her journey through faith, marriage, and life's unexpected challenges! Stephanie opens up her heart and life to explore the trials and triumphs she has faced. From domestic abuse and widowhood to the vibrant spirit of a punk rocker single mom, this conversation shines a light on the power of faith and humor in overcoming hardships. Step into the world of marriage restoration and divine intervention as we examine relationships tested by addiction, severe health issues, and unexpected pregnancies. Learn how spiritual guidance can transform a relationship on the brink of collapse into one…

Chapters (00:00) - Unlikely Housewives Discuss Faith and Culture (03:29) - Navigating Faith, Love, and Authenticity (17:33) - Godly Leaders and Their Imperfections (22:57) - Parenting Through the Culture War (30:50) - Navigating Cultural Shifts in Faith (43:09) - Parenting Challenges in Modern Culture (51:50) - Love, Accountability, and Faith Podcast Summary Can cultural differences coexist harmoniously with faith? Join us as we uncover surprising journeys of atheists who embraced Christ by aligning with church's worldview on contentious issues like the trans movement and socialism. With Pastor Zach Terry bringing his no-nonsense approach to faith and community, we promise you'll gain insights into navigating challenging conversations with love and authenticity. This episode isn't just about belief—it's about the courage to build bridges beyond disagreement and discovering how community thrives even in diversity. Podcasting is more than a medium; it's a movement reshaping spiritual discourse, and we're eager…

Chapters (00:00) - Magnetic Marriages (06:29) - Transforming Marriage Through Personal Growth (15:42) - Love Language Dynamics and Miscommunications (24:13) - Rebuilding Fun and Foundation in Marriage (30:16) - Prioritizing Self-Care and Active Listening (43:36) - Reviving and Nurturing Marital Relationships (54:11) - Empowering Housewives for Self-Improvement Podcast Summary Unlock the secrets to building and sustaining magnetic marriages with insights from our special guest, certified relationship coach Cristie Cerniglia. Learn how husbands often gauge their success through their wives' happiness and discover the transformative power of personal growth in revitalizing long-term relationships. Cristie shares her journey of reigniting intimacy in her 30-year marriage using Laura Doyle's strategies, offering valuable lessons that extend beyond marriage to all types of relationships. Prepare to become the "magnet" in your connections, ensuring they thrive long after the children have flown the nest. Discover…

Chapters (00:04) - Discussing Divorce and Infidelity (08:48) - Creative PR Strategy Involving Celebrities (15:30) - Taboo Topics of Infidelity and Divorce (27:24) - Recognizing Signs of Marital Infidelity (34:47) - Grateful for Friend's Support and Faith Podcast Summary We take a trip back to our early podcasting days, where we were huddled in a makeshift studio, with the incredible Stephanie Dulin, our very first guest as we discussed the complex issues of foster care and adoption. Fast forward to now, and we're diving headfirst into a heartfelt discussion and the isolating experience of divorce within the Christian community. Stephanie shares how a seemingly unrelated event, like a Coldplay concert incident, can mirror personal trials, offering unexpected lessons and insights. Through laughter and candid conversation, we remind each other—and our listeners—that no one is truly alone in their journey. This episode tackles the tough conversations many shy away from—infidelity and divorce—and the societal…

Chapters (00:00) - Warrior Moms in Faith and Healing (05:33) - Family Struggles With Anxiety and Depression (14:17) - Desperate Struggles of Motherhood (23:11) - Recovery Journey From Trauma and Suicide (26:59) - Navigating Therapy and Counseling With Children (41:36) - Empowering Communication With Teenagers Podcast Summary Jenn Robb, a warrior mom and nurse practitioner, shares her emotionally charged journey in navigating her daughter's mental health struggles, including anxiety, depression, and self-harm, that disrupted their seemingly perfect family life. As someone who understands the pressure of maintaining appearances in Christian communities, Jenn speaks candidly about the stigma and isolation that comes with these challenges, particularly when sensitive topics like sexual assault are involved. Through her story, Jenn reveals how faith, prayer, and persistence became her guiding lights, and how she found healing and purpose amidst personal battles. Together, we explore the painful yet hopeful…

Book Initial Amino Acid Therapy Trial Here Chapters (00:00) - Calm Mom Amino Acid Therapy (04:54) - Finding Healing Through Amino Acid Therapy (24:20) - Overcoming Challenges Through Faith and Healing (30:34) - Brain-Centered Mom Therapy Program (34:21) - Empowering Wellness Choices for Families Podcast Summary After facing years of struggle with anxiety, depression, and an eating disorder, Laurie Hammer discovered the profound impact of amino acid therapy on her mental health and energy levels. In our conversation, Laurie shares her personal journey and introduces the innovative Calm Mom Method, designed to help moms manage anxiety and restore energy. With a strong foundation in psychology and nutritional therapy, Laurie reveals how balancing neurotransmitters can alleviate cravings and mental health challenges, offering a ray of hope for anyone on a mental wellness journey. Our discussion doesn't shy away from the complexities of transitioning from traditional antidepressants to alternative therapies. We…

Ever find yourself thinking, "Why should I bother anyone with my small problems when people are facing much bigger issues?" In our latest episode, we unpack this common mindset and the isolation it breeds. We stress that every challenge, no matter how small it may seem, deserves attention and support. Through candid conversations and personal anecdotes, we highlight the importance of community and the healing power of sharing our burdens. No prayer request is too small, and as friends, we're here to lift each other up, regardless of the weight of our struggles. We also journey through life's challenging terrains, exploring how these experiences can be woven into a greater purpose. Whether you're grappling with health issues, a painful divorce, or personal battles, you don’t have to face it alone. We dive into the concept of spiritual warfare and the quest for meaning during tough times, enriched by redemption stories from our summer series. Embracing vulnerability and community, we reflect on how sharing our…

Chapters (01:49) - Navigating Grief With Dr. Amanda McNeil (11:57) - Navigating Feelings of Grief AND Hope (20:12) Finding Balance in the Grieving Process (26:33) - Supporting Friends in Grief and Avoidance (34:24) Navigating Pain and Questioning God (39:59) - Nurturing Faith and Healing After Loss Podcast Summary Grief can feel like an isolating journey, but what if it could also be a path to purpose and understanding? Join us for a conversation with Dr. Amanda McNeil, a grief counselor who turned personal tragedy into a mission to help others navigate their own loss. As we share personal reflections on teenage emotions and the universal experience of feeling alone in our pain, Dr. McNeil offers her unique insights into the diverse ways grief can manifest. Listen as we explore the importance of recognizing and validating these differences, and how Dr. Amanda's journey from loss to leadership coaching inspires hope amidst darkness. Children often find it challenging to understand grief and loss, and our…

Chapters (05:28) Themes of Change and Authenticity (13:28) Reconnecting With Daughter After Adoption (18:42) Developing Relationship With Christ (24:01) Teaching Unconditional Love to Children (28:30) Parental Love vs. Acceptance (36:14) Parents' Guidance and God's Redemption Podcast Summary When the phone rang that ordinary day, Dr. Zoe Shaw had no idea it would be her daughter, the one she gave up for adoption 18 years ago, reaching out through Facebook. This unexpected moment of reconnection was a profound healing experience that unraveled years of secret-keeping and shame. In our latest conversation, Dr. Zoe shares her remarkable story of redemption and the unexpected paths life can take. Her journey is a testament to how God can use even the most hidden parts of our lives for healing and transformation. Join us as Dr. Zoe talks about her transition from a traditional psychotherapy practice to a dynamic blend of virtual therapy and coaching, focusing on empowering women to overcome shame and…

Chapters (00:00) - Journey of Addiction Recovery and Healing (04:11) - Parenting and Substance Use Awareness (17:32) - Navigating Teenage Drug Use and Recovery (28:36) - Grief, Recovery, and Family Healing (39:12) - Embracing Healing Through Communication (45:49) - Family Intervention Dynamics Podcast Summary Navigating the stormy seas of addiction and recovery can feel isolating, but you're not alone. Darryl Rogers, our courageous guest, shares the heartfelt journey of supporting his son, Chase, through the throes of substance use disorder. Their story, marked by familial love and unimaginable loss, illuminates the often-misunderstood landscape of addiction. As parents, we are reminded that understanding and communication are vital lifeboats in troubled waters, offering pathways to healing and hope for both individuals and their families. Join us as we tackle the complex challenges of parenting amidst substance use awareness. With Darryl's insights, we uncover the subtle yet significant warning signs of…

Chapters (00:00) - Finding Wellness Through Faith and Nutrition (06:29) - Overcoming Infertility Through Nutrition (19:39) - Biblical Principles for Health Education (25:33) - Christian Health & Nutrition School Start (26:38) - Discovering Surrender in God's Calling (30:16) - Transition to Ranch Life (35:44) - Nutrition and Faith Integration Podcast Summary After years of grappling with chronic health issues, Chelsea Blackbird found solace not in conventional medicine, but in the nourishing embrace of a faith-driven, holistic lifestyle. Her transition from a bustling city life in Houston to the tranquility of a West Texas ranch was more than just a geographical change; it was a profound journey toward healing and purpose. Join Chelsea as she shares how living on the ranch and learning from her husband, a grass-fed cattle rancher, ignited a passion for nutrition that not only transformed her own health but also became a beacon of hope for countless Christian women seeking vibrant wellness. Chelsea's personal…